Surrender your problems and yourself to your higher divine. Your current mental state and ability to solve problems led you to where you are? Why don't one surrender themselves and realize that they are not alone? Ask for help and listen to your higher divine and seek for enlightenment. The secret of happiness lies in the mind's release from worldly ties. It is as simple as it can be.

Remember, it's your mind... that creates this world. Happy or Sad is a human feeling and learn how to smile and want others around you to be happy. Avoiding or shunning other people out is an act of selfishness and cowardliness.

I once knew of a person who is in touch of her higherself and also the divine side of her. One day, we lost communications because she felt that I had a dark shadow over me. That was her choice. But should we cast people out because they nag too much? They cry over the same problem?

If a person who is living in darkness, one should go over, light her a candle and show her the brightside of life. Lighting of candles for people do not shorten your lifespan of your candle but it will make the world a brighter place. Just as if you share happiness with others and listen to them, you are not losing your own happiness.

Learning to smile and accept things for what they are is what one needs to learn.

I am the owner of my karma .
I inherit my karma.
I am born of my karma.
I am related to my karma.
I live supported by my karma.
Whatever karma I create, whether good or evil, that I shall inherit.